Parent/Carer Intro to RSE
Relationships and Sex Education
As Parents and Carers you are the first and most important educators of your children.
You want your children to feel positive about themselves, to be safe and healthy and be prepared for long-term intimate relationships. You want to ensure that they are taught in the right way in matters relating to human growth and development.
We want to work in partnership with you to complement and reinforce the lessons you teach your child as they grow up.
Relationships and Sex Education (RSE) is taught as part of PSHEE. Our course follows the model curriculum provided by the Catholic Education Service and the PSHE Association Programme of Study.
The course meets the Department for Education's statutory requirements. Our course uses carefully chosen, age-appropriate resources in keeping with our school's Catholic ethos.
If you do not wish your child to take part in some aspect of the Sex Education curriculum, please contact the Headteacher via the RSE Parental Survey (green link button below). We will arrange a meeting to discuss how we can best support you in this aspect of your child's education. Three terms before your child turns 16, they can choose for themselves to receive Sex Education.
Catholic Teaching on Relationships and Sex Education (RSE)
Our Mission Statement commits us to the education of the whole child (spiritual, physical, intellectual, moral, social, cultural, emotional) and we believe that RSE is an integral part of this education. Furthermore, our school aims state that we will endeavour to raise pupils’ self-esteem, help them to grow in knowledge and understanding, recognise the value of all persons and develop caring and sensitive attitudes. It is in this context that we commit ourselves:
In partnership with parents, we commit to providing children and young people with a positive and prudent sexual education which is compatible with their physical, cognitive, psychological, and spiritual maturity, and rooted in a Catholic vision of education and the human person.
Our RSE curriculum is founded on three core themes within which there will be broad overlap. It is adaptable to the age and ability of the pupils. The three themes are:
1. Created and loved by God (this explores the individual)
The Christian imperative to love self, made in the image and likeness of God, shows an understanding of the importance of valuing and understanding oneself as the basis for personal relationships.
2. Created to love others (this explores an individual’s relationships with others)
God is love. We are created out of love and for love. The command to love is the basis of all Christian morality.
3. Created to live in community – local, national & global (this explores the individual’s relationships with the wider world)
Human beings are relational by nature and live in the wider community. Through our exchange with others, our mutual service and through dialogue, we attempt to proclaim and extend the Kingdom of God for the good of individuals and the good of society.
Attitudes and virtues:
- reverence for the gift of human sexuality and fertility;
- respect for the dignity of every human being – in their own person and in the person of others;
- joy in the goodness of the created world and their own bodily natures;
- responsibility for their own actions and a recognition of the impact of these on others;
- recognising and valuing their own sexual identity and that of others;
- celebrating the gift of life-long, self-giving love;
- recognising the importance of marriage and family life;
- fidelity in relationships.
Personal and social skills:
- making sound judgements and good choices which have integrity, and which are respectful of the individual’s commitments;
- loving and being loved, and the ability to form friendships and loving, stable relationships free from exploitation, abuse and bullying;
- managing emotions within relationships, and when relationships break down, with confidence, sensitivity and dignity;
- managing conflict positively, recognising the value of difference;
- cultivating humility, mercy and compassion, learning to forgive and be forgiven;
- developing self-esteem and confidence, demonstrating self-respect and empathy for others;
- building resilience and the ability to resist unwanted pressures, recognising the influence and impact of the media, internet and peer groups and so developing the ability to assess pressures and respond appropriately;
- being patient, delaying gratification and learning to recognise the appropriate stages in the development of relationships, and how to love chastely;
- how to keep themselves safe by assessing risks and managing behaviours in order to minimise the risk to health and personal integrity.
To know and understand:
- the Church’s teaching on relationships and the nature and meaning of sexual love;
- the Church’s teaching on marriage and the importance of marriage and family life;
- the centrality and importance of virtue in guiding human living and loving;
- the physical and psychological changes that accompany puberty;
- the facts about human reproduction, how love is expressed sexually and how sexual love plays an essential and sacred role in procreation;
- how to manage fertility in a way which is compatible with their stage of life, their own values and commitments, including an understanding of the difference between natural family planning and artificial contraception;
- how to keep themselves safe from sexually transmitted infections and how to avoid unintended pregnancy, including where to go for advice.
Years 7-9 Relationships and Sex Education Topics
| YEAR 7 LESSONS | TOPICS |
| Family Life |
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| Our Bodies |
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| Puberty |
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| Our Bodies, Our Rights |
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| Ask It Basket |
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| YEAR 8 LESSONS | TOPICS |
| HPV Vaccine |
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| Happy Being Me |
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| Romantic Relationships |
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| Ask It Basket |
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| YEAR 9 LESSONS | TOPICS |
| Body Image |
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| My Body, My Choice |
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| Contraception and Consent |
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| Sexting |
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| Is Porn a Problem? |
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| Working Out Relationships |
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Years 10-11 Relationships and Sex Education Topics
| YEAR 10 LESSONS | TOPICS |
| Gender Equality |
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| Healthy Relationships |
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| Love is Patient |
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| Sexual Health |
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| Parenting |
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| YEAR 11 LESSONS | TOPICS |
| Long Term Relationships |
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| Consent and Coercion |
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| Contraception |
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| Check It Out |
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RSE Parental Survey
As Parents and Carers you are the first and most important educators of your children.
As a school community, we are committed to working in partnership with parents and carers to complement and reinforce the lessons you teach your child as they prepare for adulthood.
Please complete the short survey below to provide feedback on our RSE Curriculum and ask any questions that you have.
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