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Notre Dame High School

Notre Dame
High School

Parent/Carer Intro to RSE

Relationships and Sex Education

As Parents and Carers you are the first and most important educators of your children.

You want your children to feel positive about themselves, to be safe and healthy and be prepared for long-term intimate relationships. You want to ensure that they are taught in the right way in matters relating to human growth and development.

We want to work in partnership with you to complement and reinforce the lessons you teach your child as they grow up.

Relationships and Sex Education (RSE) is taught as part of PSHEE. Our course follows the model curriculum provided by the Catholic Education Service and the PSHE Association Programme of Study.

The course meets the Department for Education's statutory requirements. Our course uses carefully chosen, age-appropriate resources in keeping with our school's  Catholic ethos

If you do not wish your child to take part in some aspect of the Sex Education curriculum, please contact the Headteacher via the RSE Parental Survey (green link button below).  We will arrange a meeting to discuss how we can best support you in this aspect of your child's education. Three terms before your child turns 16, they can choose for themselves to receive Sex Education.

Catholic Teaching on Relationships and Sex Education (RSE) 

Our Mission Statement commits us to the education of the whole child (spiritual, physical, intellectual, moral, social, cultural, emotional) and we believe that RSE is an integral part of this education.  Furthermore, our school aims state that we will endeavour to raise pupils’ self-esteem, help them to grow in knowledge and understanding, recognise the value of all persons and develop caring and sensitive attitudes. It is in this context that we commit ourselves:

In partnership with parents, we commit to providing children and young people with a positive and prudent sexual education which is compatible with their physical, cognitive, psychological, and spiritual maturity, and rooted in a Catholic vision of education and the human person.

Our RSE curriculum is founded on three core themes within which there will be broad overlap. It is adaptable to the age and ability of the pupils. The three themes are:

1. Created and loved by God (this explores the individual)

The Christian imperative to love self, made in the image and likeness of God, shows an understanding of the importance of valuing and understanding oneself as the basis for personal relationships.

2. Created to love others (this explores an individual’s relationships with others)

God is love. We are created out of love and for love. The command to love is the basis of all Christian morality.

3. Created to live in community – local, national & global (this explores the individual’s relationships with the wider world)

Human beings are relational by nature and live in the wider community. Through our exchange with others, our mutual service and through dialogue, we attempt to proclaim and extend the Kingdom of God for the good of individuals and the good of society.

Attitudes and virtues:

  • reverence for the gift of human sexuality and fertility;
  • respect for the dignity of every human being – in their own person and in the person of others;
  • joy in the goodness of the created world and their own bodily natures;
  • responsibility for their own actions and a recognition of the impact of these on others;
  • recognising and valuing their own sexual identity and that of others;
  • celebrating the gift of life-long, self-giving love;
  • recognising the importance of marriage and family life;
  • fidelity in relationships.

Personal and social skills:

  • making sound judgements and good choices which have integrity, and which are respectful of the individual’s commitments;
  • loving and being loved, and the ability to form friendships and loving, stable relationships free from exploitation, abuse and bullying;
  • managing emotions within relationships, and when relationships break down, with confidence, sensitivity and dignity;
  • managing conflict positively, recognising the value of difference;
  • cultivating humility, mercy and compassion, learning to forgive and be forgiven;
  • developing self-esteem and confidence, demonstrating self-respect and empathy for others;
  • building resilience and the ability to resist unwanted pressures, recognising the influence and impact of the media, internet and peer groups and so developing the ability to assess pressures and respond appropriately;
  • being patient, delaying gratification and learning to recognise the appropriate stages in the development of relationships, and how to love chastely;
  • how to keep themselves safe by assessing risks and managing behaviours in order to minimise the risk to health and personal integrity.

To know and understand:

  • the Church’s teaching on relationships and the nature and meaning of sexual love;
  • the Church’s teaching on marriage and the importance of marriage and family life;
  • the centrality and importance of virtue in guiding human living and loving;
  • the physical and psychological changes that accompany puberty;
  • the facts about human reproduction, how love is expressed sexually and how sexual love plays an essential and sacred role in procreation;
  • how to manage fertility in a way which is compatible with their stage of life, their own values and commitments, including an understanding of the difference between natural family planning and artificial contraception;
  • how to keep themselves safe from sexually transmitted infections and how to avoid unintended pregnancy, including where to go for advice.

Years 7-9 Relationships and Sex Education Topics 

YEAR 7 LESSONS TOPICS
Family Life
  • What makes a healthy/unhealthy relationship within families
Our Bodies
  • Advice on how to be body confident and Church Teachings on why we should treat our bodies with respect
  • Learning the scientific terms for male and female reproductive organs and sexual anatomy
Puberty
  • strategies to manage physical and mental changes that are a typical part of growing up, including puberty and menstrual wellbeing
Our Bodies, Our Rights
  • Respecting each other's bodies. 
  • Age appropriate understanding of Female Genital Mutilation and why it is illegal in the UK (using a short animated film designed for Primary School pupils).
Ask It Basket
  • Developing confidence to talk about relationships and sexual health
  • Age-appropriate answers to your Relationships and Sex Education questions

 

YEAR 8 LESSONS TOPICS
HPV Vaccine
  • What are STIs? Benefits of receiving the HPV vaccine
  • Reasons for delaying having an intimate relationships
Happy Being Me
  • Catholic Teaching on Human Dignity
  • Being positive about what makes us unique
  • Strategies to manage the physical and mental changes that are a typical part of growing up
  • Understanding the influence of social media on body image
Romantic Relationships
  • Catholic Teaching on the purpose of marriage and physical intimacy
  • The importance of consent at all stages of an adult relationship
  • Understanding the laws concerning consent
Ask It Basket
  • Developing confidence to talk about relationships and sexual health
  • Age-appropriate answers to your Relationships and Sex Education questions

 

YEAR 9 LESSONS TOPICS
Body Image
  • The impact of Media on mental health body image
My Body, My Choice
  • Different attitudes to our personal space  
  • Awareness of sexual harassment
Contraception and Consent
  • Understanding different forms of contraception
  • The laws on Consent
Sexting
  • How to develop trust in a relationship
  • The laws on sexting
  • How to remove a nude image from the Internet
Is Porn a Problem?
  • How the media portrays relationships and the potential impact of this on people's expectations of relationships
  • The impact of sharing sexual images of others without consent including Child Sexual Exploitation
Working Out Relationships
  • Catholic Teaching on intimacy within an adult relationship
  • Long Term Relationships (Marriage and the Law)
  • Developing conflict management skills and strategies
  • Identifying the characteristics of abusive behaviours
  • How to report abusive behaviours
  • How to access support for you or others

Years 10-11 Relationships and Sex Education Topics 

YEAR 10 LESSONS TOPICS
Gender Equality
  • Challenging stereotypes in career pathways
Healthy Relationships
  • Different forms of long-term commitments
  • The benefits and responsibilities of a relationship with legal status
  • Why forced marriage is illegal in the UK
  • How to access support if you are in an unhealthy relationship
Love is Patient
  • Catholic Teaching on sex outside of marriage
  • Recall laws on consent
  • How to talk about consent within a relationship
  • How to identify signs of abuse in a relationship
  • Advice and support you can access
Sexual Health
  • Learning about specific STIs, their treatment and how to reduce the risk of transmission
  • How to choose appropriate forms of contraception
  • The physical and emotional responses people may have to unintended pregnancy
  • How to access support from sexual health services
Parenting
  • Responsibilities of being a parent

 

YEAR 11 LESSONS TOPICS
Long Term Relationships
  • Reflect on how values, beliefs and cultural background inform our relationships
  • How to responsibly manage changes in personal relationships
  • Laws relating to 'honour-based violence' and forced marriage
Consent and Coercion
  • Recall the principles of healthy sexual experiences
  • Recognise when a relationship is abusive and strategies to manage this
  • Identify what constitutes sexual assault
  • Challenge victim-blaming including when abuse occurs online
  • Strategies to respond to exploitation, bullying, harassment and control in relationships
Contraception
  • Catholic Teaching on Contraception
  • Differences between forms of contraception
  • Importance of seeking professional advice
Check It Out
  • How to be responsible for maintaining and monitoring health including cancer
  • Assess and manage risks associated with cosmetic and aesthetic procedures
  • How to access sexual health services

 RSE Parental Survey

As Parents and Carers you are the first and most important educators of your children.

As a school community, we are committed to working in partnership with parents and carers to complement and reinforce the lessons you teach your child as they prepare for adulthood. 

Please complete the short survey below to provide feedback on our RSE Curriculum and ask any questions that you have.